DONâ€™T FORCE LOVE
â€œLove is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant,â€¦ does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,â€¦ does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;â€¦ bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never failsâ€¦â€
The above is what the bible says of love in Corinthians 13:4-8.
So when someone is threatened to love someone, it ceases to become love for love is patient and waits for the person to make up their own mind.
When someone grounds someone and forces them not to leave the house, that is not love for love is not jealous.
So most of the crimes committed by people who are supposed to be in love show that they do not base their relationships on the true facets of love aforementioned.
The result is all this domestic violence that we see around and read about in the media.
That violence should be done away with.
That violence has had tragic consequences many times.
There is no profit in physical or violent confrontation and the sooner lovers realize that, the better.
In fact, a person who was cheating turns into a saint in comparison with a partner who reacts violently after discovering the cheat.
Those that are married to mates that do not understand the need for peaceful resolutions and are victims of domestic violence must report the perpetrators to the police before anything tragic happens.
Otherwise many people are going to die through domestic violence.
Like the adage says, revenge is a dangerous motive.
Instead of being a victim of adultery, one can easily turn into a killer or murderer by choosing violence as an option.
If you are a victim of adultery, domestic violence or any domestic crime, report the perpetrator to the police and let the problems be solved by the justice system.
Things could turn nasty â€“ even tragic â€“ when one chooses to retaliate to a violent or cheating partner.
These things have happened and the fact is, they never solved any domestic problem.
Married people should just avoid violent conduct and the sooner they realize that, the better.
We cannot have a society that just takes the law into their hands because they are hurt in love. We are better than that.
We are a people that can easily understand what real love is built on.